(That may be due to his lower back tattoo that reads “HARDER,” he admits.) For example, he tends to top with his husband, but when filming, he more frequently bottoms. It’s frustrating because I enjoy both equally, it just depends on the chemistry I have with my partner.”Īdult performer Jeremy Feist is versatile but, like David, says the role he takes is entirely dependent on whom he’s having sex with. “When someone finds out that I bottom as well, all of a sudden you aren’t vers, you’re just a bottom. “People always try to force you into picking one position over the other,” David, 29, tells NewNowNext. After speaking with dozens of sexually versatile men, more than half said they’ve been subject to some form of judgement from partners.
These figures suggest that versatile gays represent the majority, yet there seems to be skepticism when we voice this preference. It’s not that complicated.Īccording to research published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, half of gay and bisexual men identify as versatile, while the remaining half is equally comprised of tops and bottoms. Other times I prefer exploring my submissive side, so I bottom. Sometimes I like to channel dominant energy, so I top. Sexually, I identify as versatile, meaning that I enjoy both topping and bottoming.
